Of course, we should all be looking for attractive men who accept us for all of our flaws, but to let them know that we're interested we have to flirt and show them that we want them. This isn't a post about changing ourselves fundamentally. Hell no. Be yourself, always. Just show that you want to be kissed with such passion it makes us weak in the knees and a little unsure what English is again.
Hint for the men; to move from flirting to the Next Step, kiss her neck. Fail safe way. And get consent! If you kiss her and she shoves you away and kicks the boy germ holders (your balls), then she is saying no. If you kiss her and she returns the kiss, then she is saying yes to the kiss, then you have to ask how far she wants to go and work with that.
Jeez, even writing about it makes me miss making out and fondling each other. I need a kiss.