Of late my body has been saying "yes please, let's have sex right now" but I think that it's just trying to do the biological thing and get pregnant.
My head and heart want to slap body and tell it to "Shut up!"
So I'm trying the 3 month rule. If we are still together as whatever we are and my head and heart has caught up with horny body, I might consider. Might.
I like that idea. I might even take it on as a life rule. 3 months may seem long, but I don't want to be easy or with someone who just wants sex. This will mean I will only be intimate with those I have real feelings for. Or I hope so.